TKS

There’s something I’ve been wanting to talk to you both about. I know this is a difficult conversation, but i care about you both very much. And I know that you care about each other very much. And that’s why it’s important that we set these boundaries moving forward, so we can build an environment…where we all feel..comfortable, trusted, and open to sharing our feelings.
Feelings.
Feelings. Jesus. The truth is, for so long, I’d forgotten what those even were. I’ve been stuck in one place, in a cave, you might say. A deep, dark cave. And then, I left some Eggos out in the woods, and you came into my life and for the first time in a long time, I started to feel things again. I started to feel happy. But, lately, I guess I’ve been feeling…distant from you. Like you’re – you’re pulling away from me or something. I miss playing board games every night, making triple-decker Eggo extravagances at sunrise, watching westerns together before we doze off. But I know you’re getting older. Growing. And I guess…if I’m being honest, that’s what scares me. I don’t want things to change.
So, I think that maybe that’s why I cam in here, to try to maybe…stop that change. To turn back the clock. To make things go back to how they were. But i know that’s naive. That’s just…not how life works. It’s moving. Always moving, whether you like it or not. And, yeah, sometimes it’s painful. Sometimes it’s sad. And sometimes…it’s surprising.
So, you know what? Keep growing up kid. Don’t let me stop you. Make mistakes, learn from ’em, and when life hurts you, because it will, remember the hurt. The hurt is good. It means you’re out of that cave. But, please, if you don’t mind, for the sake of your poor old dad, keep the door open three inches.

人世间的眼泪,几世修行的宿缘。
人在爱中,一定要承受痛苦和快乐才会感悟。

有痛,

是因为有爱,

有不舍和纠缠,才能更好的了解自己。

学会珍惜,每个开心和悲伤的,

学会感恩,感恩每一个瞬间……